Real Wedding: Molly and Andrew's Candlelit Winter Wedding
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony and Reception | 98 Guests | Plated Dinner | Choice Open Bar Package with Signature Cocktails
Vendors
Planner: An Event to Remember | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Chalkboard Artist: MW Calligraphy | Caterer: Under the Oak | Dessert (Donuts): Monuts Donuts | Small Cutting Cake: Mad Hatter | Photographer: Arsalan Abbasi | Videographer: Truffle Wedding Films | DJ: DJ Rang | Florist: Fireside Farms | Hair Stylist: Jade Marion Hair | Makeup Stylist: Makeup x Samara | Transportation: BJ Car Service | Wedding Night: The Durham Hotel
Daytime Preparations Followed by an
Outdoor Evening Ceremony in the Courtyard
Heartfelt Toasts and A Warm Candlelit Dinner
It’s All in the Details…
Dessert! Dancing!
Top 5 Guest Experiences to Make Your Wedding Memorable
Your wedding is about celebrating your love, but it’s also one of the rare occasions when so many of your favorite people will be together in one place. At The Cookery, we’ve seen firsthand that the best guest experiences don’t have to be over-the-top—they’re thoughtful, personal, and designed to make everyone feel like part of the celebration.
1. Give Guests Something to Do
Interactive details give guests a reason to mingle and create memories of their own. We’ve seen couples bring everything from photo booths and creative guest books to cigar rolling, lawn games, and video games to The Cookery. Our garden, courtyard, Front Room, and ballroom give you plenty of room to create different experiences throughout the day.
Photos by: Sarah Joann Photography, Joanna Sue Photography, Karena Schroeder Photography, Sir Walter Cigars, Nick Levine Photography, & Kristen Jones Photography
2. Make Food Part of the Fun
Dinner doesn’t have to be the only memorable food moment. Late-night snacks, dessert displays, food stations, signature cocktails, and unexpected treats can turn your menu into an experience of its own. With a choice of caterers from our Exclusive Caterer List, couples at The Cookery have the flexibility to create a menu that feels like them.
Photos by: Joanna Sue Photography, Rae Marshall Photography, Sarah Joann Photography, & Nick Levine Photography
3. Create Spaces for More Than Dancing
Not every guest wants to spend the whole reception on the dance floor. One of the benefits of celebrating at The Cookery is having multiple indoor and outdoor spaces to enjoy. Guests can hit the dance floor in the ballroom, grab a drink at the bar, mingle in the Front Room, or sneak outside to the garden or courtyard for a quieter conversation.
Photos by: Nick Levine Photography, Pamela Jahnke Photography, Nick Levine Photography, & Golden Hearts Photo
4. Add Something Personal
Look to your own story for details guests won’t experience at anyone else’s wedding. A favorite food from your first date, a cocktail inspired by a memorable trip, family traditions, meaningful music, or décor connected to a shared interest can make the entire celebration feel more personal.
The Cookery’s exposed brick, historic Durham character, and flexible spaces provide a distinctive backdrop without dictating what your wedding has to look like—leaving plenty of room to make the space your own.
Photos by: Kristen Jones Photography, Golden Hearts Photo, Pamela Jahnke Photography, Nick Levine Photography, & Joanna Sue Photography
5. Keep Guests Comfortable
Sometimes the best guest experience is one guests barely notice. An easy flow throughout the celebration, comfortable seating, convenient transportation, and a solid weather plan all help guests relax and enjoy themselves. The Cookery offers indoor and outdoor options, tables and chairs for up to 200 guests, and valet parking, so some of those practical details can be taken care of before the big day even arrives.
Ultimately, start with one question: How do you want your guests to feel? Whether the answer is welcomed, surprised, relaxed, entertained, or completely spoiled, use that feeling as your guide. The most memorable weddings aren’t necessarily the ones with the most extras—they’re the ones where every detail feels intentional.
Photos by: The Cookery, Joanna Sue Photography, & L’amour Photo
Real Wedding: Stephanie and Andrew’s Summer Garden Ceremony
Stephanie and Andrew's summer wedding at The Cookery was filled with fresh color, thoughtful details, and joyful moments from start to finish. Their celebration paired a sunny outdoor ceremony with soft pink florals, elegant candlelit tables, a stunning floral wedding cake, and a packed dance floor. From timeless portraits to beautifully designed reception spaces, every part of the day reflected a modern, garden-inspired style and offers plenty of inspiration for couples planning a Durham wedding.
Wedding at a Glance:
Ceremony & Reception | 180 Guests | Plated Meal | Choice Beer and Wine Package
Vendors:
Photography:Timmester Photography| Planning: LP Planning & Design | Caterer: Under The Oak | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Florals: Brushed By Bec | Chuppah: Raleigh Chuppah | Band: Emerald Empire Band | Hair & Makeup: Blissful Muse
Getting Ready
A Sunny Ceremony
Love in Full Bloom
A Party of Pink!
Emma and Will’s Colorful Spring Celebration
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony and Reception | 100 Guests | Buffet | Choice Open Bar Package with Signature Cocktails
Vendors
Planner and Florals: An Event to Remember | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Photographer: Rose Trail Images | Caterer: Rocky Top Catering | Cake: Crema Coffee Roaster & Bakery | Donuts: Tepuy Donuts | Coffee Cart: Arbour Coffee Co. | DJ: All Events DJs | Officiant: Raleigh Wedding Minister | Transportation: White Horse Transportation
Springing to Life
A Vibrant Garden Ceremony
Something to Sip On
Sweet, Sweet Celebrations
A Dazzling Evening of Dancing
A Dazzling, Chic April Romance
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony and Reception | 75 Guests | Carving Stations | Premium Open Bar Package with Signature Cocktails
Vendors
Planner: Raleigh Weddings | Photographer: Sophie Morris Photography | Videographer: Single Story Film | Cake & Desserts: Bestow Baked Goods | Floral Design: Bubbly and Bright Event Design | Rentals: Curated Events | Hair & Makeup: Peach Cowgirl Beauty | Lighting: Get Lit Event Lighting | Catering: HL Catering Company | DJ: Discoboxx | Live Jazz Music: Thrio | Live Cigar Rolling: Sir Walter Cigars | Photo Booth: RCS Entertainment | Beignet Truck: Mr. A’s Beignets
The Quiet Morning Excitement
“Sip and Be Seated”
Love From All Angles
A Cheerful Meal
The Beginning of Happily Ever After
Megan and Admas’s Lovely Valentine’s Wedding
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony and Reception | 141 Guests | Plated Meal | Choice Open Bar Package with Signature Cocktails
Vendors
Planner: An Event to Remember | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Caterer: Chapel Hill Catering Company | Photographer: Kristen Jones Photography | Videographer: Jon Warlick Media | Live Band: Blaze The City | Florist: Sundragon Florals | Hair: Versatility Hair Studio | Makeup: Allyson’s Chair | Transportation: Carolina Livery
A Downtown Durham Start to the Day
Red, White, and I Do
A Fiesta of Love
Real Wedding: Jennifer and Ellis’s Brilliant Winter Wedding
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony and Reception | 195 Guests | Buffet | Choice Open Bar Package with Signature Cocktails
Vendors
Planner: An Event to Remember | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Caterer: Chapel Hill Catering Company | Photographer: Kristen Jones Photography | Videographer: Jon Warlick Media | Live Band: Blaze The City | Florist: Sundragon Florals | Hair: Versatility Hair Studio | Makeup: Allyson’s Chair | Transportation: Carolina Livery
An Energetic Start to the Day
An Evergreen Ceremony in the Garden
Beautiful Details, Frozen in Time
A Joyful Winter Night of Celebration
Real Wedding: Emily and Elliot’s Unforgettable Fall Wedding
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony and Reception | 97 Guests | Family Style | Choice Open Bar Package with Signature Cocktails
Vendors
Planner: An Event to Remember | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Florals: Mood Fleuriste | Caterer: Snap Pea Creative Dining | Late Night Snack: LocoPops | Cutting Cake: Mad Hatter’s Café & Bakeshop | Photographer: L’Amour Foto | DJ: Bunn DJ Company | Hair & Makeup: Reverie Hair Co. | Jeweler: James Allen | Suit Shop: Generation Tux | Wedding Gown: Brocade Bridal
A Colorful Welcome
A Romantic Sunset Stroll
Surrounded by Flowers and Loved Ones
A Wonderfully Warm Reception
Real Wedding: Natalie and Scott's Loving Celebration
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony and Reception | 125 Guests | Buffet | Choice Open Bar Package with Signature Cocktails
Vendors
Planner: An Event to Remember | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Caterer: Donovan’s Dish | Dessert: Groovy Duck Bakery and Sweetwater Italian Ice | Photographer: Joanna Sue Photography | Videographer: Pretty Films | DJ Friend: Troy Santolla | Florist: An Event to Remember | Officiant: Morgan McNeil | Makeup: Boho Beauty & Co | Transportation: Carolina Car Service
“Welcome To Our Beginning”
A Sentimental Ceremony in the Ballroom
Celebrated by Loved Ones
Soft & Delicate Details
End of the Night, Start of a New Adventure!
Real Wedding: Deegan and Ben's Spring Enchantment
Wedding at a Glance:
Ceremony and Reception | 192 Guests | Plated Dinner | Choice Open Bar Package
Vendors:
Planner: Raleigh Weddings | Photography: Golden Hearts Photo | Venue: Durham Cookery | Planning and Design: Raleigh Weddings | Videography: Weddings by LDF | Catering: The Catering Company | Florals: Split Acre Farm | Ceremony String Trio: Elegant Ensembles | Band: The Soulpsy | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Hair and Make Up: Mane Choice Bridal | Bridal Gown: A & B Raleigh | Bridal Alterations: Helga's Bridal | Groom’s Tux: Liles Clothing | Party Bus: RDU Party Bus | Transportation: Ecostyle Transportation | Rehearsal Dinner Venue: Plum Durham
Getting Ready in the Dressing Suite with your Crew!
A Ballroom Ceremony Surrounded by Love
First Dance, Dance Party, Cake Piñata(?!) & Final Send Off
Real Wedding: Beautifully Bold and Ornate Fall Indian Wedding
Sarah and Anirudh’s Hindu Wedding Ceremony, Reception & Epic Dance Party
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony & Reception | 103 Guests | Plated Dinner | Choice Open Bar Package cocktail hour, Choice Beer and Wine evening
Vendors
Photography: Kivus and Camera | Prep Suites: 21C Museum Hotel | Ceremony & Reception Venue: The Cookery | Planning: A Swanky Affair | Florals: Color Fields Farm | Baraat & Ceremony music: DJ Paradime | Officiant: Hindu Priest Vikasananda Krishna | Catering: The Catering Company of Chapel Hill | Band: Eight Past Midnight, Sam Hill Entertainment | Cake: Taylor Street Sweets | Chalk Art: Marika Wendelken | Rentals: American Party Rentals
Ceremony and Offerings in the Garden
A Grand Dinner, Wedding Cake Bliss and Dancing into the Night
A Final Farewell from the Courtyard
Real Wedding: Boho Chic Springtime Wedding
Jacqueline and Timo’s wedding celebration started with a glowing ceremony in the ballroom, followed by a beautiful plated dinner surrounded by springtime flowers. The night ended with music and dancing in the Front Room under sparkling market lights!
Real Wedding: Boho Chic Springtime Wedding
Jacqueline & Timo’s March Ceremony & Reception
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony & Reception | 188 Guests | Plated Dinner | Choice Open Bar Package
Vendors
Photography: John Branch Photography | Planning: Emily Katherine Events| Caterer: Donavan’s Dish | Florist: Bower Bird Flowers | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Specialty Rentals: Greenhouse Picker Sisters | Musicians: Arioso Strings | DJ: Discoboxx | Delta 8 Station: Groove Wagon | Photo Booth: Zim Zoom Photobooth | Chalkboard Artist: MW Caligraphy | Cake: Capital Cakes NC | Videography: Honey Dew Films
Tying the Knot
Morning Preparations
All Those Gorgeous Details
Dinner Reception Toasts & First Dances
Cake Cutting, Bar Details, & Dancing the Night Away
Real Wedding: Thomas & Ayana’s September Celebration
Featuring autumnal colors and classic candlelit tables, Thomas and Ayana’s stylish wedding began with an outdoor ceremony in our cobblestoned garden, followed by dinner in the ballroom and dancing throughout the venue! Click on the picture to scroll through and see the details!
Wedding at a Glance
Ceremony & Reception | 110 Guests | Plated Dinner | Choice Open Bar Package
Vendors
Photography: Claiire Photography | Planning: Rita Williams | Caterer: Tasty Tweets | Rentals: American Party Rental | Florals: Family Member
The Perfect Day Preparations
The Wedding Party that Brings the Love
Garden “I Dos”
Autumn Florals & Whimsical Feathers
Dancing From the Front Room to the Ballroom
Real Wedding: Kyle and Mia's October Wedding Bash
Kyle and Mia tied the knot on October 1 in a garden party-esque ceremony under a fabulous tent complete with market lights & greenery dancing above guests' heads. With an make-your-own Old Fashioned cocktail bar, the most gorgeous first dance, a relaxed and dinner-party vibe meal and toasts, and a killer time on the dance floor – we think these two celebrated their love on a day they'll never forget. Scroll through the pictures to see all the details and gain inspiration for your upcoming event!
Kyle and Mia's October Wedding Bash
Wedding at a Glance:
Ceremony & Reception | Guests: 167 | Buffet Dinner | Choice Open Bar Package
Vendors:
Photography & Video: Eric D. Floberg Photography | Designer & Planner: Lion House Events | Band: Sam Hill Entertainment | Catering: Sage and Swift | Ceremony Music: Andreea Costiuc, NC Violinist | Florist: Joneswell Flowers | Rentals: American Party Rentals, Curated Events Raleigh, Something Vintage Rentals | Beauty: Tease and Blush | Transportation: North Hills Transportation | Dessert: The Parlour | Chalkboard: Marika Wendelken Calligraphy and Illustration | Pre-Wedding Photos: American Tobacco Campus
Big Day Preparations
Garden Party Ceremony
Reception Dinner in the Ballroom by Candlelight
Dessert, Dancing & A Beautiful Send Off!
Real Wedding: Delaney and Emmett’s Colorful Disco Wedding
Delaney and Emmett’s wedding at The Cookery was a vibrant disco love celebration! With bold decorations including shimmering disco balls, vibrant painted backdrops, and colorful wildflowers, this day was absolutely exuberant. A testament to their fun, creative spirits, this wedding day was simply perfect. Click to scroll through these pictures and see all the details!
Delaney & Emmett’s Colorful Disco Wedding
Wedding at a Glance:
Ceremony & Reception | 105 Guests | Family-Style Dinner | Choice Open Bar Package
Vendors:
Photography: Karena Schroeder Photography | Planning: Folie à Deux Events | Caterer: Donovan's Dish | Rentals: American Party Rentals | Specialty Rentals: Revel NC | DJ: Dow Oak Events | Cake/Dessert: Cocoa Forte | Chalkboard Art: Rachel Writes NC | Hair & Makeup: Peach Cowgirl Beauty
Getting Ready
Vibrant Details